Well… men are not all the same at all. In fact women are much more similar to each other than men are.
For example:
When you ask a woman what she really wants in a man, they would usually say … confident, caring, funny, attentive … etc… Women usually agree on what type of man that they want.
Now, if you ask a man what kind of girl he wants, they either don’t know… or it will be completely different to what another man wants in a woman. In other words, men usually don’t agree on the types of women that they want personality wise.
The only thing that men do agree on however, is physical appearance. So if I say to a guy “What do you look for in a women?” He might say,”a tight ass, nice boobs and a pretty face”. All men will agree on that. But if I asked, “What about personality wise?” It is most likely that it will be completely different to what I or another man wants in a woman.
So men are not all the same in what type of girl they want personality wise, however, they are all the same when it comes to physical preferences.
So here is the point…
Women attract men through their physical appearance. So when a man notices an attractive woman, his predator nature automatically comes out and he thinks “I want to fool around with her” …
Thus, you will most likely receive the same types of attitudes from most men, when he is in front of a gorgeous woman; His desire to be with a beautiful woman
If a women meets a guy and she is dating him for a few weeks, the guy is actually trying to see if the girl is the personality type that he wants.
So the only reason why most men seem the same, is because they all respond the same to physical appearance. But the moment when a man likes a woman for her personality, he becomes totally different to all other men.
Thus, women have a stumbling block. Because they want to attract men, but they are triggering off the wrong responses in the men.
If you meet a man who is not that interested in physical appearance, but is more interested in personality, then you will meet a different type of guy who actually responds to your personality.
OR another way is … if a girl doesn’t doll herself up so much with make-up… she won’t triggers off his predator nature, then maybe the man might see the woman for who she truly is, thus he might act differently towards her.
On the other hand, men are totally different from each-other when it comes to personality attraction.
If you can find a man who is either deep enough to look past physical beauty (meaning physical beauty is not only what he is looking for)… Or if the women can ‘tone down’ her physical beauty, so the man can have a chance to see her for who she really is… Then you will see if the guy is really interested in you or not.
So most men only seem the same because of surface physical attraction, but men are totally different when it comes to personality attraction.
That is why it is so important for a guy to say to you ‘you are beautiful’ when you are not wearing any make-up. It proves that he likes you ‘for you’ and not just the way how you look. Thus, he becomes the man you truly want him to be and is totally different to every other man.
So to wrap this up…
If you don’t trigger off a males predator mentality (his physical sexual desires), he is likely going to act differently and see you as a person. Thus, he will not be called one of those guys who you refer to as ‘men are all the same’.
It allows you to express yourself and become the fun confident woman you desire to be… and thus men will respond to you in powerful ways because your personality shines through.
[Source: nicholasfinnegan ]
1 ) If all men are the same, why do women take so long to choose one? 
2 ) Women say all men are the same, but they have no problem telling you how different you are from Mel Gibson.
