Monday, May 19, 2014

Experience many times but one time is enough

In our daily life, there will be ups and down.

Friends comes & go.

You may experience something that one person doing it wrong towards you.

You can either starts Assuming or just let it be.

Assuming makes you wonder and your mind will start thinking more of the negative stuff rather then the positive.

Thanks for the guy that told me this, if you assume,

You are making an  [Ass] out of [U] and [Me]


It is definitely true . Why assume when you can ask?

On top of that,everything happens for a reason.

You may wonder what does my title means.

It is referring to one actions that is done towards a person.

You maybe doing something wrong towards the person over and over again but you will never notice  it till it happens back to you. When it hits back to you,  you will start having disappointments and dissatisfaction towards the person.

But did you look back at the mirror or even sit down and think?


Why make enemies?

When you start telling your friends about the person you dislike or even hate, your friends will definitely side you. A MATURE PERSON or even friends will listen to the other party become coming with a win win solution. MATURE person wont take sides. 


As said, everything happens for a reason.

LIFE IS SHORT,ENJOY IT TO THE FULLEST. [Rather than keeping hate inside]

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Friday, April 25, 2014

Men Are All The Same

Well… men are not all the same at all. In fact women are much more similar to each other than men are.

For example:

When you ask a woman what she really wants in a man, they would usually say … confident, caring, funny, attentive … etc… Women usually agree on what type of man that they want.

Now, if you ask a man what kind of girl he wants, they either don’t know… or it will be completely different to what another man wants in a woman. In other words, men usually don’t agree on the types of women that they want personality wise.

The only thing that men do agree on however, is physical appearance. So if I say to   a guy “What do you look for in a women?” He might say,”a tight ass, nice boobs and a pretty face”. All men will agree on that. But if I asked, “What about personality wise?” It is most likely that it will be completely different to what I or another man wants in a woman.

So men are not all the same in what type of girl they want personality wise, however, they are all the same when it comes to physical preferences.

So here is the point…

Women attract men through their physical appearance. So when a man notices an attractive woman, his predator nature automatically comes out and he thinks “I want to fool around with her” …

Thus, you will most likely receive the same types of attitudes from most men, when he is in front of a gorgeous woman; His desire to be with a beautiful woman

If a women meets a guy and she is dating him for a few weeks, the guy is actually trying to see if the girl is the personality type that he wants.

So the only reason why most men seem the same, is because they all respond the same to physical appearance. But the moment when a man likes a woman for her personality, he becomes totally different to all other men.

Thus, women have a stumbling block. Because they want to attract men, but they are triggering off the wrong responses in the men.

If you meet a man who is not that interested in physical appearance, but is more interested in personality, then you will meet a different type of guy who actually responds to your personality.

OR another way is … if a girl doesn’t doll herself up so much with make-up… she won’t triggers off his predator nature, then maybe the man might see the woman for who she truly is, thus he might act differently towards her.

On the other hand, men are totally different from each-other when it comes to personality attraction.

If you can find a man who is either deep enough to look past physical beauty (meaning physical beauty is not only what he is looking for)… Or if the women can ‘tone down’ her physical beauty, so the man can have a chance to see her for who she really is… Then you will see if the guy is really interested in you or not.

So most men only seem the same because of surface physical attraction, but men are totally different when it comes to personality attraction.

That is why it is so important for a guy to say to you ‘you are beautiful’ when you are not wearing any make-up. It proves that he likes you ‘for you’ and not just the way how you look. Thus, he becomes the man you truly want him to be and is totally different to every other man.

So to wrap this up…

If you don’t trigger off a males predator mentality (his physical sexual desires), he is likely going to act differently and see you as a person. Thus, he will not be called one of those guys who you refer to as ‘men are all the same’.

It allows you to express yourself and become the fun confident woman you desire to be… and thus men will respond to you in powerful ways because your personality shines through.

[Source: nicholasfinnegan ]

1 ) If all men are the same, why do women take so long to choose one?

2 ) Women say all men are the same, but they have no problem telling you how different you are from Mel Gibson.

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Friday, April 18, 2014

Cover Your Face with Sperm will makes you Look Young


New Formula for looking young .

No Chemicals but just pure natural ingredients.


The term sperm refers to the male reproductive cells and is derived from the Greek word (σπέρμα) sperma (meaning "seed"). [ Wikipedia]



Refer to the article below.



True or not, try it yourself.


Thursday, April 17, 2014

WORK CULTURE: Don't force employees to work very long hours

I could not agree more with the letter.[ As below]


WHEN I was in college, I used to see people crowding at the bus stop at 5.30pm. So I was under the impression that most people finished work between 5pm and 6.30pm.

Now that I'm an employee in a multinational company, I realise I am wrong. Attached to the Human Resource Department, I have worked past normal working hours, and have returned home between 10pm and 1am.

According to the Mindquest Group coach and counsellor, the long hours in Asia has something to do with the culture and there is an unwritten rule that you can't leave the office until your boss has left.

We often hear neighbours, relatives, friends or family members complaining about their long working hours.

Since the beginning of the millennium, we have struggled for work life balance. Meetings are organised after office hours and even lunch hours are being snatched away from employees.

Time spent with family has dramatically reduced, we lose sight of them and look past our greatest treasure. More married couples opt for dinner takeaways from fast-food restaurants.

In an attempt to grab opportunities, secure challenging possibilities and attain career success, we've neglected our family, the value of love and ignored our health.

Watching my husband reply to every email, every night has moved me to write this. He keeps typing until 3am while replying to his WhatsApp messages on his handphone.

He has been sleeping less than seven hours every day and the siege on his sleep pattern has debilitated him completely. He calls himself a juggler, juggling career, family and freedom.

His experience has taught me to be a better leader. I pledge to never hold back my employees for late- night work. I let them spend their precious time with their loved ones after office hours.

I do not want to imply that unfinished work should be carried out the next day, but pushing too much will lead to slackness and reduced productivity.

As working hours can greatly affect work life balance, employers in every organisation should limit working hours to 48 hours per week with one day declared as a day off.

My former boss used make it a point to chase us away from the office between 5.30pm and 6pm, reminding us that we should leave for home soon.

Employers should track the time taken to complete a specific task and ensure departments are adequately staffed to prevent employees from overworking.

Flexible hours and telecommuting can be extremely valuable to employees with young children.

"People who violate your boundaries are thieves. They steal time that doesn't belong to them." -- Elizabeth Grace Saunders

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Friday, April 11, 2014




Abbreviation for: you only live once

Life is Short , Why not do what ever you want and do the best about it.

Stressing yourself out is not the solution. If you keep it inside and it will spoil your mood for the whole day or even everyday till the issue is solved.


Till today i Trust the phase “ Go with the Flow” where go along with the current situation rather than make a never ending page of pro and Cons of making a decision. If there is some Hiccup it between, we can learn from it and be better.

Just think, what if you did not “Go with the Flow”? Will you learn the same thing as some one did.

And at the end of the day,you will be at stage 1 and never pass 2.

Thinking about something too long will just make the best things in life fades away .

Good things in life does not waits forever for you BUT you can wait forever for it.

Does 2014 comes every year?

Does you 21 birthday comes every year?

True or not? You tell me.

Life is short. Just do it. Break the rules. But know the boundaries .